I can calm and soft. Sometimes I hold myself back. But there are time I would really like to let go. I despise any pain what so ever. The red mist syndrome. But when I do let go I do really enjoy myself.
What triggers you to go from your normal self to
I realised when I was in my 5 year as a sub. My Domme knew me so well. Better than myself. She taught me so well. I learnt so much from her.
You have been both Sub and Dom. Is it more about the pain or pleasure for you and would you ever give it up ?
For me.... It's about the control I have with the tease. Knowing that I have control of release.
Would you ever give it up being a Dom/Sub?
It's my life. It's so in me I could never give it up.
Have you ever had a Male sub or have they
I had a male sub for a short while. (Old leather Guard).
How do you know when you meet someone that he
A season Dom can see within. My sub wanted me to take her but I refused at first, she wasn't ready
You have said that you are the caring dom..... have you ever drawn blood by accident with a sub .?And has a Dom ever drawn your blood?
Yes. I've had blood drawn in an extreme play -- It explains why I don't cross that line
How do you to discern a poser from a dependable,
A poser will ask you for pictures of you naked even before you ask questions. This really annoys me no end.
Have you ever had a scene go wrong & if so, how did you handle it? And what do you do for aftercare?
Never in my time have I had a scene go wrong, I enjoy aftercare because it allows me to be really soft.